Advice for Camera-Shy Couples on Their Wedding Day
Weddings are an important day in a couple's relationship. It's an official mark of their union and dedication to each other, whether it's a small, private affair or a large event with a crowd of friends and family. A good wedding isn't just a wonderful day and in of itself — it's a day you can look back on and remember fondly.
An excellent way to remember your wedding day is to have pictures and videos taken during the ceremony and reception. However, many people are camera-shy, especially at important events. They may be so uncertain of themselves that they wonder if it's worth hiring a wedding videographer.
If you're wondering how to avoid feeling awkward in front of the camera on your wedding day, don't worry. At Brighter Lights, our wedding videographers work with shy couples all the time. We strive to make our clients as comfortable and at-ease as possible. Here are our wedding ideas for shy couples and tips for how to overcome camera anxiety.
Treat Us Like Flies on the Wall
Part of the anxiety towards a photographer or videographer at your wedding may stem from the idea that you'll constantly feel scrutinized. This is a reasonable thing to be nervous about — after all, it's hard to enjoy your wedding when you can't walk three steps without a camera lens in your face. Even if you're not nervous about being on camera, constant camera flashes or other reminders that you're being recorded can make you anxious.
With Brighter Lights, however, you don't need to worry. Our videographers strive to be discreet and unobtrusive while they work. They'll capture you in your element, whether you're chatting with close friends or busting a move on the dance floor. They'll also make sure to get enough material that you'll have plenty to choose from once the wedding is over.
Get to Know Your Vendor
In addition to working discreetly, our videographers are open and accommodating. At Brighter Lights, we work hard to get to know our clients before their big day. Getting to know your videographer can help you feel more comfortable around them and allows you to outline your likes and dislikes beforehand.
If you have any questions, this is the perfect time to ask them as well. Asking questions can help you feel better prepared and more in control of the process, letting you feel less nervous when you're being filmed. Even if the question seems small, don't hesitate to ask — remember, the videographer is there to make you happy.
Remove the Pressure of Time
As wonderful as weddings can be, it's no secret that organizing and attending one can be stressful. Besides the guest list, catering and the venue, there's also the jitters that come with declaring your love in front of an audience. The last thing you want on your wedding day is the additional stress of posing for and organizing wedding videos.
That's why our videographers work to minimize the pressure of good wedding shots. They'll practice with you ahead of time, provide tips and let you know in advance what they want you to do. They're discreet when filming during the ceremony, and they'll help pose you for more choreographed segments. They'll also make sure you have a wide variety of content to choose from, meaning you won't have to worry about only ending up with a minute of usable footage.
Take Carefree Engagement Photos With Your Photographer
Engagement photos allow you and your significant other to capture intimate moments before you recite your wedding vows. Taking some time with your photographer before the big day lets you enjoy each other's company without the presence of other guests.
Engagement shoots also give you time to get used to the camera. If you're still nervous at the thought of having your picture taken, the engagement session will help you get more comfortable with it. Think of it as a practice run for what you'll do on your wedding day.
More Tips on How to Overcome Camera Anxiety
Brighter Lights will work hard to ease any anxiety you feel over having your picture taken at your wedding. However, you might be wondering if there's anything you can do to both lessen your nerves and help your photos and video come out the best they can be. While your specific videographer will likely provide you with advice, here are a few basic tips you can keep in mind:
Act natural: This may seem easier said than done, but it's still important to keep in mind. The more you try to pose and posture for wedding photos, the stiffer they'll feel — and the less fun you'll have. No matter what pose your videographer suggests, try to keep it loose and natural. Remember, you're creating happy memories that you'll be able to look back on for the rest of your life.
Ask questions: Even if you don't think you need to ask questions, having a few to ask your videographer in advance will help you feel more prepared for your big day. You can ask them how to prepare yourself for the big day, where they'll set up for the wedding and any other questions. Even if the question feels small or silly, don't be afraid to ask — after all, your videographer is there to help you.
Don't be afraid to defer to the professionals: You've likely already planned out what you'll wear and how you'll style your hair on your wedding day. You may also have some idea of how to pose for your videos. However, if you find yourself unsure or hesitating, don't be afraid to turn to professionals for advice. Videographers are there to make people comfortable in front of the camera and ensure you look your best on your wedding day.
Contact Brighter Lights Today
Weddings are meant to be a happy day, one that you'll want to remember for the rest of your life. Wedding videos can help you do that — however, some couples may feel camera-shy and balk at being recorded.
If you're preparing for your wedding but are hesitant about being on camera, call Brighter Lights. Brighter Lights offers high-quality, artistic videography that will help capture the magic of your wedding day. We're experienced, flexible and have transparent pricing, meaning you won't have your day soured by hidden fees or rigid filming protocols. Contact us today and let us help you to remember your wedding forever.
